Adolescents "Muslim" Culture besieged Valentine Day (?)

[Quoted from http://captaincook6.multiply.com/] - Ever the streets in the mall, bookstore, book store, try fitting this February deh you walk into shopping malls, bookstores, book store, try look around you, roof-ceiling or roof of a picture of a pink color, there is a pink heart-shaped two, I think hell really fun ... especially fit you're with your vacation, romantic look Whew tis .. tis .. tis ... ( which is definitely a feeling you).
So, what's with the February hell, how many pictures plastered pink hearts?, Among meriahnya pink plastered big writing "Happy Valentine's Day", on TV and radio, magazines and newspapers do not want to miss anything as display ads Valentine's Day, valentine day exploit the issue by organizing the events well, moreover it is also enlivened with a teenage son or daughter who is engrossed in slang.
Yes that's ... Valentine's Day, or days where we Compassionate, once fitted junior high hell wrote what I heard today was valentine day, but this time dont know what is the real valentine day, what more to celebrate come ...
Landscape valentine day celebration was presumably not foreign in the City are too big cities in Indonesia, like Jakarta, Bandung, Surabaya, Yogyakarta, etc.. Where Young boys and girls, girls boys, though still junior class I already know the name of this evil culture, they usually spend this celebration by holding a contest among the opposite sex to seduce each other, give each other flowers, candy to his girlfriend, music party snub ngadain there of mixing men and non-mahram woman, accompanied by booze, Sampek-opening event open shirt, a waste of money ortunya sekena stomach, even the event was used as justification for the guys and girls to express their desires to the opposite sex, such as kissing on the cheek, holding hands, until the scene devil, nauudzu billahi dzaliki min.
Funny thing this celebration was apparently non-monopolized by young children, the fathers and mothers, aunt-aunt did not miss 'bertaklid' celebrates the culture of this garbage, as if by bertameng celebrate day of love, they justify this by celebrating together together with the opposite sex, sharing mutual interest, such as partying and even imitate what is done "her children".
What is sad is, this activity has been looted Muslim teenagers, teenagers who diwanti-warned by the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, to no taqlid the infidel way of life. To always tie behavior to refer to Islam, making the haram halal as the benchmark in all his actions, even late in the celebration of ignorance is to leave the Islamic faith.
Then why does teenager Islam provoked this depraved event?, How well the origins of Valentine's Day?, And how the Islamic view of the celebration of valentine day, and the attitude we should take like what?, Here are answers to the questions above.
Origins of Valentine's Day
Valentine's Day is celebrated each regular February 14, Why do until there is valentine day? At least there are several legends including; the Roman Empire, led by Emperor Claudius II around the third century AD. At that time the Roman Empire often engage in bloody warfare campaign with another kingdom.
At that time, many men who enggap join military units which he muster, the reason is that they are more loving wife and family and defiantly want to leave them to fight let alone a war which took many months, even years.
The cruel emperor who sought to prohibit marriage and not allow the marriage of the youth, these youths are expected to be a warrior / soldier Dlm military units, according to the great warrior emperor's youth who are not married.
Seeing the form of injustice, tyranny Roman Ruler, A young man who called Valentinos or person named Valentine retain power in the region Emperor II romance, even marriage he carried out by stealth despite the Emperor forbade this. Finally the news of her marriage also wafted by the Emperor, At once he caught and imprisoned until she died Valentine's Day February 14, 270 AD.
Several hundred years later events such as Valentine's Day fast growing that we know today, at that time the Christian Religion-the rapidly growing more rapidly in Europe. Meanwhile, another legend states that when Valentine was imprisoned in Rome, He is interested in a girl and fell in love with her, the girl who had visited him during penahananya, where her own brother of the man who imprisoned Valentine. Allegedly he write a letter to the girl and signed it "from your Valentine". Later Pope Gelasius declared February 14 as Valentine's Day around 498 AD century
Thus some of the legends surrounding Valentine's Day, but what is clear that there had been vague, and biased about valentine day and another version of the legend says that Valentine was a sympathetic figure and romantic and heroic.
That bit about the origins of the day valentine day where the occurrence of the Roman Empire, though based on the story of a young man who only give a love letter to a girl but now the tradition of celebrating Valentine's Day has changed, valentine day is celebrated with a variety of disobedience, violation of Islamic rules, 'and filled with different events spend money. It is clear that the activity is contrary to Islamic rules' should be explained to the people is Islam, so that they understand the prohibition of valentine day celebration of this, leave it.
Islamic views on Valentine's Day Celebration
It has been described above regarding the activities of the teenagers who went along to celebrate valentine day blindly, accompanied by a hodgepodge activity between opposite sex, and other immoral acts, then how exactly to celebrate Valentine's law, the following will I write here.
Islam is a faith and sharia, therein govern all human life no one lives that do not governed by Islam, every Muslim must bind all his actions with Islamic rules', he was forbidden to act without knowing their legal status, as kaedah fiqh, says "al aslu fi al af'al ataqiyudu li al hukmi syar'i which means "Origin (principal / law) the act is bound by the laws of Personality".
Allah Almighty says in the Quran in surah An Nisa: 65: "So by your Lord, they (basically) do not believe until they make you judge of the case that they differ, then they do not feel in their hearts something objections to the decisions that you give, and they receive the full "
In Surah Al-Maidah: 49 Allah says: "and ye shall decide between them by what Allah hath revealed, and follow not their desires. And be careful you against them, so they do not turn you from sebahagian what God has revealed to you. If they turn away (from God's law has been derived), then know that Allah willed to them will put mushibah caused sebahagian their sins. And indeed most people are those who rebel. "
It is clear from the verses above, every Muslim must bind all his deeds with which Allah sent down the Qur'an and Sunnah, and we are strictly forbidden to take the law apart from this. Not pledged faith of Islam as a bond breaker all adult human behavior is a factor why many teens are now mired in unlawful acts, in addition to their lack of it, and the culture of me-too play this role.
'Berkasih-affection' version 'Valentine'an this, must know his legal first, then decide whether to be or abandoned. By seeing and understanding the origins and the fact of execution of Valentine's Day, this celebration really has nothing to do at all with the style of life a Muslim.
Without this basic tradition was born and evolved from a class of human beings (people / nation) living with a style that is very much berbeza with shades of life based on Islamic Shari'a great. If we understand passages Personality 'with more depth, will we find strict rules on the issue, among others, the word of God Almighty: "And do not follow what you do not know about it. Indeed hearing, sight and hearts, all will be asked pertangggungjawaban "(Surat al-Isra ': 36)"
Here Valentine's Day is a very clear culture of the Gentiles, that obviously we are forbidden to take, in this case we are forbidden to resemble a culture that was born of pagan civilization, which is clearly contrary to the creed of Islam, while that may be taken from all persons ( including unbelievers) is in advanced electronic problem, the non-cultural view of birth of their lives, such as foreign languages, growing rice is good, make airplanes, computers, motorcycles, cars etc even we are required to explore this.
Hali is reinforced by the hadith of the Prophet: "Whoever imitates a people then he included among them" (Reported by Abu Dawud and Imam Ahmad from Ibn 'Umar).
"It belonged to my people who resemble people other than my group (Muslims)" (Narrated by Tirmidhi from 'Amr bin Syu'aib from his father from datuknya).
So very clearly we are not allowed "tashabuh", resemble, imitate the infidel way of life that is born from the perspective of this life, we should leave all these Kufr culture far.
Youth activities as well as many who celebrate Valentine violated Islamic rules', they do sometimes to be alone / seclusion, among the opposite sex, kissing each other, holding hands, sometimes done with the busy-busy jumble of non mahram men and women, accompanied by music , seduce each other. Though already very clear that the legal origin of the women and men were separated before any arguments / syar'i purposes that demand meets both such trade, work, worship, pilgrimage, pray, get married etc..
And even then they must consider the terms of social / moral women associated with men, closing the genitals with menegenakan veil and hijab, no excessive makeup, etc.. The Prophet himself said that, "Whoever is not doing charity based orders (Quran and Sunnah), then rejected his deeds" (Narrated by Ahmad).
It was to celebrate Valentine's Day is a despicable act, and unlawful for the Muslims to celebrate, Valentine's own roots arising from infidels, west, let alone showing it came from the local culture, then it is fitting for the Muslims to leave it.
Determining Attitude
It's very clear stance to be taken by the Muslims, that celebrate Valentine means imitating indigenous / cultural Kufr other people, yet we are forbidden to tailgate, take the way of life born of faith other than Islam, such as Valentine's Day, also the understanding of human rights, democracy , dialogue between religions, capitalism, socialism.
It's enough that we just take a view of life that was born from the creed of Islam because it is clear that Islam is the perfect religion of Allah sebagiamna described in the Qur'an sura Al - Maidah: 3, "... .... On this day has Kusempurnakan for you your religion, and I have both ends meet ni'mat unto Me, and already I was so ridhai Islam religion for you ... ... "
Similarly, Allah ordered Muslims to follow the standards of halal-haram, makes the Prophet Muhammad as a role model, what mengambila Examples him and leave the matter of banning, Sebagimana word of God in surah al Hasyr: 7: "What are the booty (fai-i) God gives His Messenger (from property) derived from the inhabitants of the cities it is for God, for the Apostle, kinsfolk, orphans, poor people and people in transit, so that the treasure is not in circulation between the rich among you. What the apostle is given to you, then accept it. And what he forbids you, then leave. And fear Allah. Allah is harsh punishment. "
So what are we waiting for in addition to leaving the shape pengekoran valentine day event, let us begin serkarang leave something that really must be denied, and begin to try to apply the teachings of Islam, picking which case non-contradictory to Islam's take, while the case incompatible with Islam we reject and leave.
Hendaknyalah us ponder the words of sociologist Ibn Khaldun states "The loser tends to tow a win, in terms of clothing, vehicles, weapons forms are used, even imitate them in every way of life, including here is to follow their customs ... ... ..".
This was in tune with what you have in sabdakan Prophet: "It will not end before my people to follow what is done earlier nations, step by step, even one hour after a single hour."
Among the friends there who asked "Yes, Messenger of what is (here) is the nation-the Jews and the Christians?" The Prophet replied "Who else (if not them) (Narrated by al-Bukhari)
Finally leave the culture of indulgence in sensual Kufr worldly pleasures, the culture used as a weapon to mislead the unbelievers to export its civilization to the Muslims, in order to reach the desired target the infidels who do hate Islam and his people. Those who disbelieve will not hesitate to remove people from the creed of Islam which holds the creed of Islam and then follow the creed of ignorance, secularism capitalism.
Thus O my brother and sisters ponder, Allah Almighty says in surah al-Baqarah: 120 "The Jews and the Christians would not like to you until you follow their religion. Say: Surely Allah's guidance manual (which is true). " And verily if thou follow their desires after the knowledge came to you, then God is no longer the protector and helper for you "(al-Baqara: 120)